Friday, February 27, 2009

Sunday's Best or Sunday's Mess?

Do you go to the house of the Lord in appropriate clothing?

Times are-a-changing and church attire is becoming more and more casual.
I know that it stems from the church's obligation to "save souls".   The church wants all of us, (God's children) to come hear the word of God and has been a bit mute about the attire of the parishioners.  The terms used are "come as you are", and though the Lord does not discriminate, I think that we can do him one better and dress respectively.  Since when did your clubbing gear become church attire?




Many will love to dig their claws into me for this one, but instead of shredding me, try shredding some of your trashy frocks for ones that everyone (with class) wants to rock! and receive smiles from "The Ultimate Rock" (That's Jesus for those of you who didn't know).  
Please don't think you can get away with "I don't worship Jesus, so this article doesn't apply to me!"

Oh Yes it does!  It doesn't matter whether you practice Buddhism, Scientology, if you're Muslim, Jewish, Rastafarian, etc.  Whatever your religious obligations are, your leader and most high wants to see you giving them all glory and come to their house of worship with respectable clothing.

Any skirt that comes to the knee or below should be good, if it's a little above the knee, that's fine, as long as it's not more than 2 inches above, then we're moving backwards.  An A- Line skirt is flattering for any body shape and is good for disguising bottom- heavy figures.  It should fit by skimming the hips, then flaring out gently wider toward the bottom thereby resembling
the letter A.  


This beautiful skirt is by Carolina Herrera- $1,990 which can be found at Saks Fifth Avenue.  
It can still show the beauty of your shape without screaming "Hey elders, check out my butt!"

Other flattering choices are pencil skirts,
  solids or prints, there are so many to choose from.  The white pencil skirt is belted by Elysee for a mere $78.00.   The black pencil skirt has ruching detail on the side and is only $23.50 by Wet Seal, it even comes in sizes up to 3x.  

I'm not at all ruling out wearing pants.  A great pair of slacks, khaki pants or even denim  are fine paired with a nice top, like this one from Forever 21. It's flowy, still accentuates your curves, but it's not so tight that we can see your ribs or what you had for breakfast.

The problem is when clothes are too tight and cause attention to your body parts and not the body of Christ.

I mean, we are women and our anatomy will be on display regardless, but it is the taste in which you display it that differentiates your best from a mess.

Take a look at these tasteful classics below from Ann Taylor's Loft.
The floral skirt is $69 and the pleated skirt is $59.

Flare skirts, and pleating are choices that are always timeless.  Prints a re big on the runway this season and come in various shades, psychedelics, floral, geometric shapes, animal skins and more!


Your tops are not exempt ladies.  Since when was showing all of this skin appropriate for the sanctuary?  I know, I know, sometimes it's mucho caliente outside and/or you may have other engagements to attend after service.  When leaving the house just be sure and grab a little cardigan like this one below (Forever 21- $17.80) to cover up when you're in church and then when you walk out - Bladow!  Show off your shoulder all you like with this cute one shoulder blouse by Australian designer Shona Joy for $209.00.

 Remember it's all about the way your clothes fit and how you feel in them.  If you have to question "Is it appropriate?" 9 times out of 10 it isn't.  You don't have to let it all hang out to bring your inner Fashionbeast out!  Now Let 'er rip!!!!! & I don't mean the clothes!

Saturday, February 21, 2009

PLEASE DON'T TELL ME YOU DO THIS!!!!!!!!!!

Just because your accessories and clothing are the same color does not mean that they compliment each other!  Let me give you some examples of what I mean:


You're going to hang out with some friends and you pair this plaid zip up with these earrings!!!





STOP

What are you doing ??? No, no, no, go back in the house quickly and put these on please!


 These are much more suitable for your outfit.  They are still textured just in case you want to be a little more than basic.  Hoops are almost always a sure bet.  They come in many colors and sizes, choose what's appropriate for your overall look.  For those of you who have the audacity to ask "what's wrong with wearing the red ones?"  The answer is, it's soooo wrong for this sweater because they're too dressy!  You shouldn't pair casual clothing with dressy earrings, at least not in this case! It's different if you were wearing a white tank, tight blue jeans and wore those chandelier earrings with a pair of red pumps!  Then you would be red hot, but with this get up, you're definitely not!

Here's an example of  matching = getting it right







These earrings which can be found at Forever 21 are totally cute and amps up this lil' BCBG dress which can be worn with flats or heels.  
Bare shoulders always compliments hanging earrings which elongates the neck,  therefore giving off the illusion of a leaner appearance, not that your seeking to be leaner, just thought I'd state the facts.

Next time you go to your box of accessories, please make sure you make the right choice, and remember, it doesn't always go together because it matches!  If you know anyone who makes these mistakes, please find them and spread the knowledge. You want them to find their inner FASHIONBEAST!